Mother’s Day has been bittersweet for me the last several years, ever since I lost my mom in 2007. Bitter because she is no longer here with us, but sweet because I have such great memories of her as the most wonderful mom ever, and because I was the mom of two sweet cats who brought so much joy to my life. Unfortunately, this year is a little less sweet than most, because I lost both of those kitties in the past year, one just last week in fact. But even though it’s a sad time for me right now, I am still blessed with those great memories of my mom and also time spent with my newest cat Stanley, who I adopted earlier this year.
I was just thinking the other day about one vivid classic movie related memory I have of my mom, so I thought I’d share it today on Mother’s Day. When I was young, my mom mentioned quite often how much she loved the movie The Perils of Pauline (1947). It was her favorite in fact.
The movie which starred Betty Hutton and John Lund, told the real life story of actress Pearl White and her rise to fame in silent movies. When the VCR and VHS tapes came along, my mom had the long desired ability to watch the movie as often as she liked, which she did many times.
My mom and dad didn’t really watch many classic movies when I was younger and I didn’t start liking them until I was in college, so I didn’t think I’d share her love for the movie and never even gave thought to the idea of watching it with her. Just based on the title and the cover photo of Betty Hutton swinging on a rope, I just assumed it would be a “dorky” movie.
Of course I feel bad now that I never took the time to watch it with her especially because I did eventually come to appreciate classic movies while she was still alive. Being the loving, forgiving mom that she was I’m sure she didn’t mind, but if I could go back in time you can bet that I would take her love for the movie more seriously and watch it with her.
If your mom is still with you and you have the opportunity to spend time with her doing the things she loves, I would encourage you to do so and hope you are able to appreciate those simple moments with her. In fact, it would make me happy if some day soon you watched one of her favorite movies with her in my mom’s honor.
Wishing all moms a happy and blessed Mother’s Day!
P.S. What are some of the classic movies you have enjoyed watching with your mom?